Our whole life is defined and molded by our own thought processes. A process that implies our behavior and reactions. Do you know when a return is more powerful than a setback? When you mold your thoughts in a way that prepares you to fight and take care of your life.
Fulfill is not easy, especially when you hit the bottom of the rock when everything you see is the darkness that surrounds you, but it is also the time you prepare to return and face your fears. Fight against all fears and conquer them, one at a time.
I went through a great setback exactly a year ago. My blog Sanity Daily was attacked and attacked by a digital seller in which I trusted the center. Not only did he leave my blog to fatality, but also made sure not to run his voice on his non -professionalism, so he approached our few common contacts and manipulated them.
Being a HSP (highly sensitive person) affected me for a while, he wrote me unpleasant things and meant things for me, but I never answered him, I watched everything from a distance, I took my time, I sat down and slept about what happened. Then, I channeled all my energy to rebuild myself. I took this as an opportunity to do things in different ways and start over. Leaving everything in the past.
I found another person who helped me to fix the blog, I learned some things, I worked very hard to recover the lost position of my blog and, today my blog is among the most important mental health blog list and has reached many other listings of this type (organically).
I began to win my blog being consistent and writing what my readers wanted to read. Next month, my Mental Health Blog Sellity Daily will complete its second year in this digital space with more than 2,70,000 page visits and readers in 60 countries.
So yes, a return is powerful for a setback, but we have to work on it, we have to ignore a lot in the process. We have collected our fights wisely. We have to be very aware of our choices, if I had put my energy literally fighting with it, sending an email, stalking her, trying to understand why he did what he did, maybe I would have completely lost it. Trust me, she had caused me a lot.
I worked on my return because I did not sign up just to rinse in a digital medium, I have taken a cause in my hand, people need help and people need to listen and share, so I kept moving.
Now, with the divorce process that happens with me, I am somewhere between a setback and a return, but I see a silver lining, a ray of hope, that although things are difficult today will be better tomorrow. And I’m working on that.
5 reasons why a return is powerful for a setback
A return is more powerful than a setback because it becomes a lot within you. It is not always the physical weight that we carry what makes us feel heavy, it is also the mental luggage, the luggage of the past that makes us feel heavier.
We must work on them, we may not approach as we want, but we could get some peace for ourselves and prepare for better things ahead. Here are some reasons that will help you understand why a return is more powerful than a setback.
1.) It helps you define better limits
When you entrust people blind, they sometimes take advantage of an improper advantage. When you can’t say they don’t give you for granted.
2.) You learn to see through things and people
With every setback you find, develop new optics, to see the world around you, to see the people around you.
3.) Take calculative risks
Perhaps, at this point you already know what your choices will take you. Analyze, calculate and then continue with your personal and professional choices.
4.) You familiarize yourself with pain and its healing process
The process helps him obtain a different perspective, through which he could also guide others, sailing on the same ship. Nothing surpasses a personal experience of real life to help others.
5.) It helps you build better relationships with others and
A return is more powerful than a setback when you allow yourself to be vulnerable and take your free time. Not only does it help you build solid relationships with yourself, but also with others.
There are innumerable stories of people who suffered failure after failure and then won the game called Life. The fight is difficult and dealing with pain is more difficult, but not all this process makes it more significant?
Why should we wait for someone to applaud, why we should wait for someone to guide us, guide us? How do you applaud for ourselves? How about being our greatest admirer and start supporting us first? Remember, a return is more powerful than a setback, start planning your great victory. Get up!
Love and light
